Reflexive Verbs

Los verbos reflexivos

Reflexive verbs indicate that the subject performs and receives the action. They require reflexive pronouns (me, te, se, nos, os, se) that match the subject.

Example: lavarse (to wash oneself) → yo me lavo, tú te lavas

What Are Reflexive Verbs

Actions that the subject does to themselves.

TypeExampleTranslation
ReflexiveMe lavoI wash myself
Non-reflexiveLavo el cocheI wash the car
ReflexiveSe levantaHe gets himself up
ReflexiveNos vestimosWe dress ourselves

Reflexive Pronouns

Each subject has a corresponding reflexive pronoun.

SubjectReflexive PronounExample
yomeme lavo
tútete lavas
él/ella/ustedsese lava
nosotros/asnosnos lavamos
vosotros/asosos laváis
ellos/ellas/ustedessese lavan
  • Pronouns must match the subject
  • Pronouns come before conjugated verbs
  • Pronouns attach to infinitives and gerunds
  • The pronoun 'se' is used for third person (singular and plural)

Pronoun Placement

Reflexive pronouns can be placed before the verb or attached to infinitives and gerunds.

  • Before conjugated verbs
  • Attached to infinitives
  • Attached to gerunds
  • Attached to affirmative commands
  • Before negative commands

Common Learner Questions

Helpful questions when using reflexive verbs:

  • Does the subject perform the action on themselves?
  • What is the subject pronoun?
  • What is the matching reflexive pronoun?
  • Should the pronoun go before the verb or attach to it?
  • Is this verb always reflexive or can it be non-reflexive?

Common Reflexive Verbs

Frequently used reflexive verbs in daily life.

InfinitiveMeaningExample
levantarseto get upMe levanto a las siete.
ducharseto showerTe duchas por la mañana.
vestirseto get dressedSe viste rápidamente.
acostarseto go to bedNos acostamos tarde.
despertarseto wake upMe despierto temprano.
llamarseto be calledMe llamo María.
sentarseto sit downSe sienta aquí.
quedarseto stayMe quedo en casa.
ponerseto put onTe pones el abrigo.
irseto leave/go awaySe va mañana.

Conjugating Reflexive Verbs

Reflexive verbs conjugate normally, but require the reflexive pronoun.

Subjectlavarselevantarse
yome lavome levanto
túte lavaste levantas
él/ella/ustedse lavase levanta
nosotros/asnos lavamosnos levantamos
vosotros/asos laváisos levantáis
ellos/ellas/ustedesse lavanse levantan

Example Sentences

Me levanto temprano todos los días.I get up early every day.
¿A qué hora te acuestas?What time do you go to bed?
Ella se ducha por la noche.She showers at night.
Nos vestimos rápidamente.We get dressed quickly.
Ellos se llaman Juan y María.They are called Juan and María.

Daily Routine Verbs

Reflexive verbs are commonly used to describe daily routines.

Me lavo las manos.I wash my hands.type: Conjugated verb
Voy a lavarme las manos.I'm going to wash my hands.type: Infinitive (attached)
Me voy a lavar las manos.I'm going to wash my hands.type: Infinitive (before)
Estoy lavándome las manos.I am washing my hands.type: Gerund (attached)
Me estoy lavando las manos.I am washing my hands.type: Gerund (before)

Reflexive vs Non-Reflexive

Many verbs can be used reflexively or non-reflexively with different meanings.

VerbReflexive MeaningNon-Reflexive Meaning
lavarlavarse (to wash oneself)lavar (to wash something)
acostaracostarse (to go to bed)acostar (to put someone to bed)
despertardespertarse (to wake up)despertar (to wake someone)
llamarllamarse (to be called)llamar (to call someone)
irirse (to leave/go away)ir (to go somewhere)
ponerponerse (to put on)poner (to put/place something)
Me despierto a las seis.I wake up at six.verb: despertarse
Me levanto a las siete.I get up at seven.verb: levantarse
Me ducho por la mañana.I shower in the morning.verb: ducharse
Me visto después de desayunar.I get dressed after breakfast.verb: vestirse
Me peino el pelo.I comb my hair.verb: peinarse
Me acuesto a las once.I go to bed at eleven.verb: acostarse

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